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Matthew McConaughey’s mom reveals why she married & divorced the same man three times

Kay McConaughey had an unconventional relationship with Jim McConaughey for years 


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FEBRUARY 4, 2025 3:47 PM EST

Matthew McConaughey is one of the most verbose actors working in Hollywood. He's shared his memories and experiences in the best-selling book "Greenlights," where he's shed light on his life, his children, his wife, and his parents. McConaughey gives his readers an unvarnished look at his family's life, including the complicated relationship he had with his parents Kay and Jim McConaughey.

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Camila Alves, Matthew McConaughey, and Kay McConaughey at the premiere of 'The Beach Bum' in 2019

Kay, 93, has recently revealed why she decided to marry and divorce McConaughey's father on three separate occasions. In an interview with Austin Lifestyle, Kay revealed that she was the one who initially proposed to McConaughey's dad. 

“Jim McConaughey couldn't make up his mind whether he wanted to get married or not," she said. 

Kay revealed that while she and Jim had known each other since college and were in love, there was still no commitment from him. She decided to give him an ultimatum. “So, I sent him an invitation to his wedding and I said if you can make it, fine, but if you don't show up at the altar, then it's over and I’m going to New York,” she said. 

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Kay often accompanies Matthew McConaughey on his film premieres

Jim showed up and the two got married, continuing their love story.

She explained that the relationship was complicated, which is why they got married and divorced three times. “I had three traditional real weddings, once in the Presbyterian church, once in the Catholic church, and once in the Methodist church,” she said.  

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Kay McConaughey is opening up about her life and experiences

Kay found love again but she never remarried

Jim died in 1992 and Kay found love again with a man named C.J. The two were together for 17 years, until he died of leukemia. Still, she never married again after Jim.  

“I never wanted to. I was just so happy to have two men in my life that I really, really loved.”

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After her last divorce from Jim, Kay fell in love with C.J. Carlig, wit hthe two spending 17 years together until his death

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