Although walking down the aisle is seen as the happy-ever-after for many people, such traditional expectations have been transplanted with a more relaxed cohabiting or happy-to-be-single mentality in recent times. Some couples – like Kate Hudson ’s mom Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell – have failed marriages behind them and know that their commitment is just as strong without a piece of paper while others have simply never wanted to put a ring on it. Here we take a look at celebrities who have chosen an alternative root to society’s marital expectations...
Shakira
Colombian-born singer Shakira met Spanish soccer star Gerard Piqué on the set of her video Waka Waka (This Time For Africa) that she recorded for the 2010 World Cup and they started dating the following year. They’ve been together ever since and have two sons: Milan (born 2013) and Sasha (born 2015) but as to making it official, the Hips Don’t Lie singer stated in a 2014 interview that: “We already have what’s essential, you know? We have a union, a love for each other, and a baby. I think that those aspects of our relationship are already established, and marriage is not going to change them. But if I’m ever going to get married, he’s the one.”
In 2020, Shakira was named Latina Powerhouse Top100.
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Oprah Winfrey
Talk show host turned media-mogul
Oprah Winfrey
has been in a relationship with Stedman Graham for over 30 years and she believes it’s been so successful precisely because they have never tied the knot. “His interpretation of what it means to be a husband and what it would mean for me to be a wife would have been pretty traditional, and I would not have been able to fit into that,” she explained to Vogue in 2017.
Leonardo DiCaprio
The 45-year-old Inception actor has dated the likes of Gisele Bündchen and Bar Refaeli in the past but is yet to put a ring on it, saying to Parade: “That time will come when that time comes. The truth is, you can’t predict marriage. You can’t plan it. It’s just going to happen when it happens.”
Marisa Tomei
The My Cousin Vinny star has been in several long-term relationships, including with fellow actor Logan Marshall-Green but marriage has never been on the cards: “I’m not that big a fan of marriage as an institution and I don’t know why women need to have children to be seen as complete human being.”
Benecio Del Toro
The Puerto-Rican actor, who now has Spanish citizenship, shares a daughter with Rod Stewart’s daughter Kimberly, called Delilah who was born in 2011. He’s been linked with various women over the years and was even engaged to Valeria Golino in the early 1990s but, in the end, the bachelor life seems to be more his thing.
Charlize Theron
The South-Africa born star was in a long relationship with Irish actor Stuart Townsend and was also briefly linked with Madonna’s ex Sean Penn but it’s her two adopted children Jackson and August that are her main focus now. Talking recently to Howard Stern, Charlize stated: “I’ve never wanted to get married. That’s never been something that’s important to me.”
Al Pacino
While the likes of Leonardo DiCaprio still have plenty of time to change their minds about marriage, Godfather legend Al Pacino, now in his eighties, seems to be set on staying a bachelor. Although when asked if he’d ever marry his then girlfriend Lucila Sola in 2015, he did reply: “I never say never. It’s possible.”
He has three children: Julie Marie (born 1989) whose mother is Jan Tarrant and twins, son Anton James and daughter Olivia Rose (born 2001), with actress Beverly D’Angelo.
Winona Ryder
The Stranger Things actress opened up to The Edit in 2016 about her views on marriage: “I’d rather never have been married than been divorced a few times. Not that there’s anything wrong with divorce, but I don’t think I could do it if that was a possibility. When your parents are madly in love for 45 years, your standards are really high. But I’ve been happily with someone for quite a while now.” She has reportedly been in a relationship with Scott Mackinlay Hahn since 2011 and was engaged to Pirates Of The Caribbean star Johnny Depp in the early 1990s.
Tyra Banks
Supermodel Tyra was with photograher Erik Asla from 2013 until 2017. She gave birth to a son name York, in 2016 but has never shown any interest in getting hitched.
Lucy Liu
The Charlie’s Angels star dated the likes of Will McCormack and Noam Gottesman before welcoming her son Rockwell into the world in 2015 via a gestational carrier. Opening up about her decision she said: “It doesn’t matter the machinations of how things occur,” she explained. ”How you love and parent a child is most important. That’s the support system, really.”
Eva Mendes
Eva Mendes, named Latina Powerhouse 2020, is one of the most famous Latina actresses in the world. For ten years she was in a relationship with George Augusto. In 2011 she started dating Ryan Gosling. The couple met on the set of The Place Beyond the Pines, in which they both starred. They have two daughters together, five-year-old, Esmeralda and three-year-old, Amada.